Irassyamase
Welcome to Toshogu-ji; Nikko, Japan

The trip to Nikko with my host family couldn't have been more perfect! We drove about an hour from their house in Shin-Shiraoka to Nikko (a town high in the mountains of Japan).
We first went to Toshogu-ji, a temple complex built in the 1600s in dedication of ruler Tokugawa Ieyasu. He is one of three people who helped unify the government/shogunate after a period of turmoil and violence in Japan.
Also at Toshogu-ji is Ieyasu's tomb (shown below). 
I was amazed at the tall trees and beautiful architecture of the site. It certainly looks much different from the treeless streets of Las Vegas!
There was so much gold everywhere you turned such as this shrine statue below.

There were a lot of beautiful buildings, relief sculptures, and amazing artwork! The two most famous sculptures are the Nemui Neko (Sleeping Cat) and the relief sculpture of the Three Monkeys found at the first building on the left as you enter the temple complex. The Three Monkeys sculpture is also known as "Mienai, Iinai, Kikoenai" which means "Can't see, can't speak, can't hear". The moral behind this theme is that young children should remain innocent by not seeing evil, speaking of evil things, or hearing evil things.

Nemui Neko is widely popular for its life-like quality and extremely realistic rendering. It is right above the portal you walk through to begin the nearly mile hike up a never-ending staircase that ends at the final, and most beautiful building on the site.
The hike up the never-ending stairs was pretty challenging, even for me. I was amazed to see extremely old Japanese men and women making the hike at a steady pace. I must say, the Japanese age very well! Below is a picture of my host-family making the trek back down the stairs.

On our way back to the car, we discovered a beautiful Japanese garden near the entrance of the temple complex that was absolutely breathtaking. I wanted to enter it and enjoy the experience of being in the center of that beautiful space so badly, but I was limited to admiring it from afar, beyond the iron chains that separated this paradise from the real world.


After spending about 2 hours at Toshogu-ji, it was time to head back. I was exhausted from all the traveling, walking, and stair climbing. However, we stopped at a local soba shop to eat lunch before heading back. We ate in the traditional Japanese dinning room which had tatami mat flooring and tables which sat low to the ground. It was a bit of a struggle to find the proper, but comfortable position to sit in. I had tenpura soba which is basically noodle soup with fried shrimp and vegetables in a hot, delicious broth. After this hearty meal, I was definitely ready for bed and relieved to get in the car and head back. Yet to my surprise, we were actually headed to Kegon Falls, about 30 minutes in the opposite direction away from the house in Shin-Shiraoka. However, the view of the beautiful waterfall was well worth the journey.

Below is Mikako (mom) and Miku (daughter) viewing the beautiful taki (waterfall).

Kegon Falls was truly a beautiful and peaceful sight. However, it had been a long day, my belly was full, and I was tired. So I was ready to nap on the trip back home when we got in the car. But after about 5 minutes on the road, we passed by a lake and decided to go paddle boating. The lake was beautiful and the mountains surrounding vast and breathtaking.

Since there were five of us, we had to split up into two boats. Myself, Mikako, and Riyuu went in the paddle boat as Tadashii decided to test his inner strength and take Miku in the row boat.

The lake was fun but tiring as we had to constantly paddle for about 45 minutes. At times, it seemed like we were paddling but not moving anywhere. I was convinced that our boat was broken and we would be stranded out in the middle of the lake. After about half an hour, a thick fog had rolled over the mountain tops and was descending onto the lake.

All of the paddle boats on the lake fled to their respective docks, because the fog was so thick that visibility had been reduced to a minimum. It was a little scary, dangerous, yet adventurous! ;)

Although this day was slightly exhausting, it was filled with spontaneity and adventure! We visited so many beautiful places in just 4 hours!
Overall, my home-stay weekend is the best experience I've had in Japan so far. I got really close to the Nakayama family and in just 3 days, managed to become a part of their family. They took great care of me and treated me like a royal guest in their home. They accompanied me half-way on the train back to Hiro-o. Saying goodbye in the train station was sad as I had grown so close to this family and appreciated all that they did for me.
I was most touched when Miku got teary-eyed as we said our goodbyes. Miku's Japanese was well advanced and I had a hard time understanding the vocabulary she was using most of the time. Also, she did not know much English, so it was a bit of a challenge to communicate with her. Nevertheless, even though Miku and I didn't necessarily stay up for hours chatting about life and bonding by sharing our experiences, I knew I had made a great enough impact on her and touched her heart that she was brought to tears upon saying goodbye.
I learned more in this one weekend than I ever could in a classroom. I learned about Japanese culture, history, and real life. I also learned that there is no such thing as a language barrier. Communication goes far beyond speech. If I can get this close to a family with my broken Japanese and only the father's broken English, then clearly it was more than just words that bonded us.